How Can I Make My Life Count?
What You’ll Learn
- Discover how to make choices today that leave a lasting difference in someone else’s life.
- Learn how to handle changing responsibilities without losing your sense of purpose.
- Understand why hope beyond death depends on Jesus rather than being good enough.
Introduction
You can build a career, raise a family, and plan for the future while still wondering whether your life is making a lasting difference. What will you pass on—and are you prepared for what comes after this life? In “We (Almost) Made It,” from the series “What Got You Here Will Not Get You There,” Pastor Gregg Matte addresses these questions at Houston’s First Baptist Church in Houston, TX, in his message from Sun, Nov 1, 2026.
How do I make my life count when I’m busy just getting through it?
Start by considering how you’re using the time and relationships you already have. In Psalm 90:12, Moses asks God to help people recognize that their days are limited so they can live wisely. That brings a practical question into your everyday routine: What deserves my attention today? Your children, friendships, coworkers, and relationship with God all deserve more than whatever energy happens to be left over. A meaningful life grows as you use your days to love people, follow Jesus, and help others know Him.
How can I keep my job or achievements from becoming my whole identity?
Recognize that your position, possessions, and opportunities have been entrusted to you by God. They’re gifts to care for during the time you have them. In Numbers 27:12–14, God tells Moses that his life is nearing its end. Even after decades of leadership, Moses cannot hold that role forever. Someone else will carry it forward. You can work hard and care deeply while remembering that your current responsibilities will eventually change. Ask how you can use what you’ve been given to benefit others while it’s in your hands.
How do I let go when life moves in a direction I didn’t choose?
Look beyond your own disappointment and consider what others need. In Numbers 27:15–17, Moses learns he will not lead the Israelites into the land God promised them. His response is remarkable: He asks God to provide someone who will care for the people after him. Letting go can hurt, whether it involves a job, a leadership role, or a changing family responsibility. Moses shows us how to care about what happens next, support the person taking responsibility, and trust God with a future we won’t control.
How can I help someone grow without controlling everything they do?
Give them real responsibility and the authority to carry it. In Numbers 27:18–20, God tells Moses to identify Joshua publicly as the next leader and share his authority with him. Joshua has already demonstrated faith and responsibility; now he needs room to lead. Helping someone grow involves teaching, encouragement, and eventually stepping back. If you keep making every decision, they never get to carry the responsibility themselves. Whether you’re mentoring a coworker or preparing another leader, invest in their character and give them room to use what they’ve learned.
What kind of legacy can I leave if I don’t have much money?
You can leave a lasting legacy through the people you help. Money and possessions are only part of what someone passes on. In Numbers 27:22–23, Moses prepares Joshua to continue leading the community, showing how one person’s influence can carry forward through another. Pastor Gregg also describes meeting regularly with a friend to read the Bible and talk about following Jesus. That friend went on to encourage others in his family, church, and community. Your time, faith, and willingness to walk alongside someone can make a difference that continues beyond you.
Is being a good person enough to get me into heaven?
Being a good person cannot replace knowing Jesus. Pastor Gregg points to Matthew 7:21–23, where Jesus describes people who appeal to their religious activities even though they never knew Him. Church attendance, a good reputation, and helping others cannot earn eternal life with God. Jesus died for our sins - the ways we disobey God - and rose again. He is the One who can forgive us and bring us into life with Him beyond death. The question is personal: Are you depending on your own record, or trusting Jesus to forgive you and save you?
What if I believe in Jesus but haven’t been living like it?
Be honest about where you are, then take a step toward walking with Him again. Pastor Gregg’s friend admitted that he had trusted Jesus earlier in life but was no longer following Him closely. They began meeting over breakfast, reading the Bible, and talking about faith. Psalm 90:12 reminds us to use our days wisely, and that includes paying attention to our relationship with God today. You can pray honestly and ask someone to help you understand Scripture and put it into practice. You don’t have to take that step alone.
Key Scripture
“Have him stand before the priest Eleazar and the whole community, and commission him in their sight.” Numbers 27:19 (CSB)
God is telling Moses to publicly recognize Joshua as the next leader so the people will have someone to guide them after Moses is gone. To “commission” someone means to entrust them with a responsibility, reminding us that part of using our influence well is preparing others to carry it forward.
About the Pastor
Gregg Matte is the Senior Pastor of Houston’s First Baptist Church in Houston, TX. With warmth, humor, and stories from everyday life, he helps people understand the Bible and see how following Jesus connects with their relationships, decisions, and biggest questions.
FAQ — Visiting Houston’s First
What should I wear?
Wear what makes you comfortable. You’ll see people in jeans and sneakers, dresses, suits or slacks. There’s no dress code.
How long is the service?
Services typically last about 70 minutes and include music and a message from the Bible.
Is there something for my kids?
Yes. Houston’s First offers care and age-appropriate experiences for children and students, from birth through high school. Available programs and schedules vary by campus, so check your location when planning your visit.
What happens when I walk in?
Friendly volunteers can answer questions and help you find the service or your children’s check-in area. Arriving 15–20 minutes early gives you time to get settled. You won’t be asked to stand up or introduce yourself as a guest.
Do I have to give money?
No. Guests are not expected or pressured to give. You’re welcome to attend and explore what Houston’s First is about.
Where should I park?
Look for designated guest parking near the main entrances. The parking team can help you find a space and point you in the right direction.
Can I come if I’ve never been to church?
Absolutely. You don’t have to be Baptist, know the Bible, or know all the answers about faith before attending.
Come Explore These Questions With Us
If you’re wondering what makes life meaningful, what happens after death, or how to begin following Jesus, you’re welcome at Houston’s First Baptist Church. Come experience a Sunday service, meet people, and bring your questions. Our team would be glad to help you choose a location and prepare for your first visit.